vocations

One of the most stressful and confusing things to thinks of...
A complaint from some women who think their vocation is marriage is that all the "good" men are priests, already married and shouldn't be to that woman, or gay!

A few of my near and dear friends are considering the religious life and everything they say makes sense for everyone to have that as their vocation...that would not really work so well, and most of the world is stubborn, people are that is.

What about marriage....typically the woman is in the kitchen and men the bread winner...many many women these days wants careers first kids later....so many dilemas so many decisions.

what about a lay person...that would be cool to be alone all your life...........

I want the last of the three, but the company of the latter and the faith of the first....i should of been a cat or something....bloody hell